BECOMING You.

April 4th, 2021

We sit in all of our imperfection thinking that the value we do not see in ourselves is a secret, and do what we can to cover it up from the eyes of the people around us, on social media, our partners, our family. We try to hide the fact that we don’t feel like we are enough when in reality, it’s written all over our inability to love other people wholeheartedly, deeply, and unconditionally.

Because the truth is, when we fail to see the raw, real, true value in ourselves, we fail to have the ability to see it in others. When we don’t think we are good enough for them, they can never be good enough for us. It’s very hidden and very subconscious, but when you directly tell yourself with every filter, with every hour spent in front of the mirror, and with every service, touch up, and adjustment, how much you cannot accept your authentic self, your mind decides that you don’t want anyone else to be authentic either….. If becoming Perfect is the goal, being authentic is ‘wrong’. It doesn’t align to be striving for perfection whilst trying to be You.

If you cannot fix your value issues for you, fix them so that you can fall in love with all of the valuable, amazing, REAL people around you. 

By not loving ourselves deeply, we are Robbing ourselves of the beautiful gift God gave us of Real relationship…

deep, real, raw, true, unhidden, without fear, without shame, honest, humble, whole relationships… those are out there, but it starts with us! It starts with You…. and your Choice to love yourself for EVERYTHING you ARE, and EVERYTHING you are Not… love yourself through your Highs and Lows, and through your best and your worst… You cannot love another until you love yourself. 

Start there… And see how beautiful the people around you become… Therefore, how beautiful life, and Living, becomes.